Relationship with Non-Muslim + responsibilities of becoming a stepdad

As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

I hope this message finds you in good health!

I am a Muslim by birth. Although I do not engage in any haram type activities, I do not consider myself a devout Muslim as in I do not pray 5 times a day nor do I attend Friday prayers or even fast all the days during Ramadan. I am currently in my 3rd year of medical school and I always told myself that when I got my academic life on track, I would start on my spiritual life. As I begun my deep understanding and devotion to Islam, I met a woman through Reddit. She is Mormon but she is looking to convert. I met he through the website where we would talk casually and about Islam. Fast forward many months, I grew to become extremely fond of this woman. She is very sincere about living a rightful life and becoming a Muslim. I think because of how I feel about her, it makes me want to become a better person and a better Muslim. Her eagerness to learn about Islam, her dedication to learning about Islam has sparked a an interest and dedication in myself as well.

We have met in person and it was an amazing experience. We had a “no hands on” rule to make sure we had no “urges.”

It has come to that time where she would like me to meet her two boys: ages 7 and 12. I have spoken to these boys on the phone and they were very respectful of what I am in school for, my religion, expressed great interest in my hobbies of gaming/fitness and overall, they were very well-behaved!

My “fear” lies in the fact about what my duties are as a stepdad and more important, as a Muslim. Due a Mormon rule, her boys will be raised as Mormon. Should I consider this an issue? She is fine with raising any children WE have as Muslim.

There are many resources out there on how to be a good stepdad, so I am here asking for advice on the Islamic portion of being a step parent.

Thank you for offering any advice or insight you may have!

REF: Islamic Parenting

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