Recently been reading some negativity about Stepmoms/dads not treating their spouse kids right or just wishing they dont exist.
so hypothetically you marry someone with kids and they have full custody..What are some ways to make the kids feel comfortable and loved?
Do you try to shower the older kids wth gifts? what if they say you are not my dad/mom..how do you improve your relationship with them?
maybe its easier if the kid is under 3 years old?